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This is kind of random, but I hate when my parents talk to guests about my OCD.
They don't say anything else about me EXCEPT that I have OCD.
My cousins only know that I obsessed over Dora when I was a kid and that my mom says 'that's because of the obsessive part of obsessive compulsive disorder.' All they know is that I went to therapy when I was 6 or 7 because I 'was having fits' or something.
It's just uncomfortable.
"Oh, their kid – who is 4 – might have it! It's better to catch it early! It's okay to spread information. Don't withhold information from your cousins/dad's friends/whoever. Do you want to be grounded? Don't be rude." SHUT UP.
OCD is not a disease.
I'm not 'suffering' with neurodivergencies.
You can share information about OCD without describing my therapy sessions to 5 people I don't know.
Am I not allowed to be upset? Every single time somebody it's over it's "Well, ___ has OCD."
jfjfkfidkrikde I don't want people to see this rant but I also want people to see this rant because validation
actually no nobody looks at my main rlly it doesn't matter
#kids with neurodivergencies are not collectables#they do this with the guest' kids too#“oh#well ___ has ADHD.“#for like. normal things that any kid would do whether or not they have ADHD.#little cousin i think. maybe parents friend's kid. “oh they have epilepsy and we're wondering if they have ___”#yo girly#that's how i talk about my axolotl#“Oh Ottie is a golden albino GFP axolotl!! we're not sure about their gender”
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friendly reminder that Neteyam is a well-adjusted kid who has a good relationship with his parents, that he tries his darnedest to be a good warrior because he genuinely looks up to his dad and wants to be like him, and that the idea that Jake and Neytiri are "forcing" him to be perfect, that they "stole his childhood" or that he's "not allowed" to be a kid, etc. are all pure fanfiction with little to no evidence in canon thanks bye
#avatar#avatar 2#neteyam#given how hesitant Jake is to let Neteyam fight I can absolutely GUARANTEE you that there was almost certainly NEVER an interaction...#...in which Neteyam said ''hey Mom and Dad I'm gonna go hang out with Lo'ak and Kiri now''#and Jake and Neytiri reply ''no son you're too old for such childish things you must come do Adult Tasks that you secretly hate instead#so you can be the Perfect Future Olo'eyktan™"#THAT DIDN'T HAPPEN#AND IT'S NOT “IMPLIED” TO HAVE HAPPENED EITHER#Y'ALL MADE THAT UP IN YOUR HEADS#along with the idea that Neteyam secretly hates his lot in life and is internally yearning to be A Normal Kid™#guys Neteyam WANTS to be a warrior he WANTS follow in Jake's footsteps he strives so hard because HE *WANTS* TO OF HIS OWN ACCORD#there is absolutely d i d d l y s q u a t that suggests this path is being “forced” on him#or that he is being secretly ~crushed under the pressure~ and Just Wants to Be Free or w/e#you. made. that. up.#it's not a canon aspect of his character#and. look. if you wanna explore the idea of him being ''crushed under pressure'' in a fanfic#because you find it interesting or it helps you work through your own stuff then hey be my guest#but once you start saying stuff like#''oh i feel so bad for [canon] Neteyam because he died before he could break free of his parents' toxic influence''#Shut Up™#neteyam's parents were not a toxic influence; he was never forced into being something he didn't want to be; his childhood was not “stolen”#he did not have anything to “break free” of. you are injecting extra layers of tragedy that aren't actually there#you are giving yourself extra grief for things that were never canon#stahp#feel free to write whatever you want in fanfiction but please i am begging you#to be aware of which ideas are actually present in the movie vs. which ones are just fanfiction
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saw some lego dinosaurs today :3
#australia adventure#i also watched the jurassic world movie for the first time AFTER going to the exhibit#it feels like it Could have been a good movie but the writing is so sexist and i spent too much time yelling EVACUATE THE GUESTS OH MY GOD#chris pratt sucks but they should've made him a horse girl for dinosaurs. that would've fixed it a bit#claire as a character is done so horribly dirty like. she's extremely competent and professional#but the entire narrative is like... portraying her as in the wrong for... being professional? for not being maternal enough?#what kind of moral is 'omggg u just need to let loose' in a movie where a SUPERMURDER DINOSAUR IS OUT OF ITS ENCLOSURE#SHE SHOULD'VE STUCK TO PROTOCOL AND EVACUATED THE PARK IMMEDIATELY!!!!!! AHHH#justice for claire jurassicworld 2024#literally every character is telling her that whatever she's doing is wrong and bad#it's excruciating to watch. anyway#indominus rex just feels like wasted potential. like it's scary for a little but it just looks like a slightly wonky t rex#should've done the thing where you barely see it and it keeps outsmarting everyone in fun and clever ways#i also personally. think they should lean into the tragedy of creating the most perfect predator but it cannot exist on this earth#i feel like there should be a sorrow and grief in having to kill a magnificent beast#like titanic or something. idk. like as a dinosaur kid im like. i like Cool Creature. in my heart im siding with cool creature#it wants enrichment. give it a meat pumpkin#would've loved to watch a defunctland style video about the theme park
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its so weird to me personally that some people think that it doesnt make sense for craig to be nice to wildernessa but still hate jason (up until scout guest), but to me the worst thing wildernessa has done is say that craig doesnt know shit about nature vs jason whos basically like "ok tony now hit the second tower" for the majority of his screentime, and people wonder why craig doesnt trust him most of the time huh
#like i truly feel that jason does eventually redeem himself and its deserved. but cmon he literally dammed the creek its no wonder#that craig doesnt like him. he doesnt get the chance to see that jason has changed to become a better person until scout guest#it just seems odd to me that people are willing to forgive jason for doing#lets be honest#much worse things than vanessa. and hes still redeemable.#but vanessa doesnt get to be redeemable just bc shes a little arrogant?#its just like. whatever! theyre kids! they know who they want to hang out with! thats like a big theme of the show!#i digress#ive rambled too much#anyways#craig of the creek#cotc#wildernessa#jason cotc#raccoon speaks#cotc analysis
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Hey y'all! My brother (not the one I live with) and I have birthdays fairly close together, and he'd like to get together and do some kind of joint celebration, but I have no idea what to do. He's an anti-vaxxer but is willing to wear a mask around me, but his kids won't so effectively whatever we do has to be outside Do you have suggestions of things we could do that are A. outside B. suitable for small children (youngest is old enough to run around and talk but not really reading yet) and C. no flashing lights?
#the person behind the yarn#he suggested a picnic and like...I do not trust his kids to stay distanced from us#and when we are eating no one is wearing masks#and my dad isn't going to tell them to go away#they are his grandkids and they are small children he's doubly not going to do that#but also. I am immunocompromised and I live with my dad#and my niece goes to an anti-masking school#and like. I fundamentally do not understand given a member of his own household is also very high risk#why my brother is so antivax#but he also doesn't believe in evolution and once took me to a like guest speaker lecture thing#about how evolution doesn't exist it's just microevolution not macroevolution (I was like 12)#and what I took away from it was oh! microevolution is a useful term for small changes in a short time frame!#it was not the intended lesson lol#hey I think he was the one that had me read the Narnia books too!#that also did not give me the intended message I somehow fully missed the allegory as a child
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every day i wish that Rats SMP was a cartoon bc it would make the greatest show ever i think
#I've been watching Arietty and the Rescuers a lot lately;;;;;;;;;;;#i just think it would make the cutest fucking cartoon with the funniest plotlines#it would be so perfect#with the ensemble cast you can swap out characters as much as you need/want to#the different animals breaking into the house later in the series would make a fucking BANGER season 2#(like can you fucking imagine. season 2 pilot. theres a BADGER IN THE HOUSE NOW?)#they've even got a halloween special AND christmas special episode it's PERFECT#the whole first season could cover the rats getting used to the house and getting settled in#maybe the season 1 finale is the mum and others coming home#I would absolutely fucking want Owen to be played by David Tennant bc his tenth doctor voice gives me rat owen vibes#rats smp cartoon would be so so so good#cannot fucking WAIT for Rats In Paris#i have a whole scene in my head of like. that episode where Jimmy gets locked in a room all night and is miserable abt it 😭#where he's trapped in the room with the son and the boy is just chasing him around the room for hours#set to the song A Haunted House! from the totoro soundtrack#trying to catch jimmy in a little bug net#there's also this whole wild chase scene in my head with one of the cats chasing Owen Martyn and Scott and the janitor gets involved as well#set to Cat Chase from the Suzume soundtrack#i actually have a whole spotify playlist titled Rats SMP But As A Wholesome Kids Cartoon it has so many ghibli movie songs#(willing to share if anyone is curious i love sharing playlists)#i fucking LOVE imagining Hey Let's Go from the totoro opening credits as a Mitchiri-Neko style marching rats credits sequence#with each verse more characters join the march until all the animal guests and humans are there too#Do the Impossible from Chicory would make such a fucking cute anime style opening showing little clips of all the chaos of the house#i love this idea so goddamn much i fucking wish i could animate ;-;#i would infodump about this idea for hours if i had infinite tag space but alas. maximum of 30
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Day 2 of Fnaftober
Today's prompts are Classics (from tumblr user: @alexiseatzbeez)
Best Pals (Insta user: Mikcole.Pen)
Without The prompt list and some other variations below cut
#back to '83 au#my art#fnaf#fnaftober#fnaf bonnie#fnaf freddy#fnaf jeremy#fnaf gabriel#not tagging them but guest starring Michael and Cassidy <3#anyways Gabe and Jeremy are besties <3 <3#I put too much effort into this oh my god#Cassidy is sick of them like c'mon guys we have to get the nightguard#Mike wont go away on his own he's too stupid to do that#Mike drew that and put it on the wall to appease the kids#it probably worked for like a night before they demanded more of him or they'd stuff him in a suit but like twice as painful if they dont#get more cool pictures >:(
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also does anyone else have one or multiple long ass self-insert fanfic universes that you imagine more of every night as youre falling asleep
mine is that im a far off traveler who arrives on the shores of ancient fantasy mdzs china with foreign cultivation (and a translation spell) who ends up going to the nearest cultivation sect as like a guest cultivator
i'm allowed to stay there and wwx is the one mostly running things since the sect heir and some of his disciples are out on a night hunt expected to last about two weeks, so i'm well settled into lotus pier by the time the sect heir comes back
and i make a total fool out of myself just staring like a moron because jiang cheng is so so so so so pretty why did nobody fucking prepare me for this???? and so i end up saying "sorry i was just. you're literally the most gorgeous person i've ever seen in my life"
and jiang cheng BLUSHESSSSS because obviously no one has ever said this to him and im like can we date. can i court you. please let me walk along the shoreline with you beneath the stars and hold your hand and kiss your cheeks
and jfm and yzy basically say that my foreign concept of dating isnt really done amongst gentry they usually set up arranged marriages/betrothals but they arent willing to do one with me since i'm a foreigner with nothing to my name and no dowry to bring to the marriage. so i decide then that im going to spend time in all the great sects learning from them and making a name for myself until i have a strong enough reputation that they'll give me permission to ask for jiang cheng's hand
and he's like so flustered and i gotta keep hyping him up while i'm there because like. he clearly has self confidence issues and doesn't think he's anything that impressive next to wei wuxian but quite honestly it's more impressive to me to not naturally be good at something and needing to put in hours and hours and hours of hard work and training to perfect your craft rather than just naturally being amazing at it
and wwx is on the sidelines like YEESSSS GOOD APPRECIATE MY SHIDI
#anyway i go to the nie next and thats fine#but everything gets fucked up when i go to the qishan wen and oh no wen ning is so cute and baby and i need him too#sending a frantic letter to jiang cheng HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT POLYAMORY BC I THINK YOU WOULD LOVE THIS BOY TOO#now i gotta prove to TWO sect leaders that i am worthy of their kid/nephew(?)#lucky that once i finish up with the jin we'll all be meeting at gusu for the guest lectures!
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Day off, can finally work on WiP's...would rather lay facedown and end my turn for a whole week.
#random stuff#rant incoming#i am trying to avoid a second cup of coffee#but it is desperately needed#no brain to do anything#and unfortunately#there are household chores to be done#because apparently over the past 4 days while i've been working#there has been a stalemate between hubby and kid over who's turn it is to do dishes#so guess who's going to do them?#or the laundry that i discovered got put in the dryer but the dryer not ran#TWO DAYS AGO#so now guess who has to rewash it?#now to wait for everyone to come home and ask 'why are you in a pissy mood?'#cue a special guest appearance by the devil#which will result in a week or two of shit actually getting done like it should#only for the cycle to start anew#out of the two other people in this house#one is justified to a degree#the other needs the occasional reminder that i am not his mother#and that he needs to pull his weight too
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ahhhhh >:(
#i am doing my best as a coach to heal my own childhood trauma from bad swim coaches#so im working soooo hard to make sure all the kids feel supported and appreciated and respected and that they are doing well#so i try not to yell and be understanding#BUT TODAY#tell me why a guest coach was there to help out and was yelling at all my kids#undoing LITERAL MONTHS of hard work and making 2 kids cry and almost sending another into a meltdown#LIKE BRO SHUT UP THESE ARE MY & MY OTHER COACHES KIDS!!! PLAY NICE#but i cant say anything because hes the guest even though my kids are actively crying from being screamed at#god i worked so hard to stop this i worked SO HARD#ugh can i not protect 100 kids from coach related trauma at once#is that too much to ask#so fucking done with the politics behind coaching#SO. FUCKING. DONE.#sorry for the rant i just ughhhh#k
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I think it's probably worth saying just how different the animatronics start out as in Meteors. They're still fundamentally the same as how they've always been for me, but there's less freedoms, less lenience and less security for them to any other AU of mine. It's meant to highlight how Fazbear as a whole treat their animatronics poorly, treating them like marvelous toys instead of the sentient robots they've allowed to form.
Things like Roxy's interest in mechanics. She still has that! She's still curious and still pokes around with the inside of the go-karts, the forklifts and whatever else she can find! But she can't leave any evidence that she's doing it. She can't repair something without someone knowing. She's not allowed to know how to repair her fellow animatronic, and yet she picks up bits and pieces to try and figure it out when no one is looking.
It's the same with Chica and her eating, interest in cooking, fairytales and whatever else. It was the same with Freddy and his love of space and desire to see the sky. It's the same with DJ and his love of languages and sound effects. It's the same with all of them. They have the interests, the desires and everything else, they just don't have the freedom to explore them.
Meteors, among other things, is about giving them that freedom.
#meteors au#the whole point is that they are given the freedom and the life they deserved the whole time#they can't change any aspect of themselves and yet most of them do their best to be themselves anyway#especially if it's for the sake of a kid/teen#and often so for an adult guest that gives a shit too#but they can never be sure! they have never had the security to do what would make them happy!#and then the place is fucking RUINED#and they CAN be themselves but look at the state of everything!!#look at the state of them!!!#there's only so much a robot can adapt before they can't!!!#a human can heal!!! the human body can adapt!!!#a robot body simple falls apart unless someone cares enough to fix it!!!#this is the point of meteors!!!#the whole point is to give them and others like them the life they rightfully deserve!!!#and all the ups and downs that come with it!!!#by wanting this for themselves and by choosing this life through the meteor#they choose the good and the bad!! the ease and the challenges!!!#their lives don't just become perfect!!!#they're simply given that which will allow them to meet their desires!!!#and they take it from there!!!#anyway I'm making posts until the meds kick in or something triggers a 'I dont want to' phase again#despite the fact I most definitely want to#:(
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4x02 is kinda underrated bc dean is like. five days out of hell max you think he might wanna fight for the couch after his stint in ultra super turbo jail but nope his ass is on the floor. and where is sam 😌💅💯
#like okay gentleman#no but it kinda reminds me of post purgatory the first episode of s8 he’s sitting on the floor#they’re like doing that soldier ptsd the bed is too soft thing#also don’t tell me bobby doesn’t have a guest room or some shit where did they sleep when they were kids#if they were over there all the time as i am meant to believe#*
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@destinywoven ♡'d for a starter !
❝ thanks for coming by, have fun in your classes. ❞
green waved the student off, only for another one to soon take their place. while he enjoyed being a guest speaker at uva academy with his husband, even he was beginning to get a little tired from the constant barrage of questions and requests for autographs. while the teachers had a pretty good handle of things within the classrooms, the halls were a totally different story. it didn't help that he had to double as a translator for red as many of the students didn't know sign language, and his brain was thoroughly done. once there was a lull in activity, green angled his body so that he could sign to red without anyone looking.
wanna get out of here while we have the chance ? we can make a break for the city if we go right now.
#destinywoven#☾ ━ green ( ic ).#the woes of being world famous lol#I like to think they were just travelling for fun but took up the offer to be guest speakers bc they really do like it#it's just that the kids were asking too many questions#green doesn't mind translating for red but having to repeat the same thing over and over is tiring for both of them I'm sure lol
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Honestly the teens I run into online are more aware of what's going on in the world than many adults I know.
My pet theory backed by very little, is it's because the teen spaces I have been the resident An Old in are often LGBT and paying a lot of attention to politics and the world is a required survival trait, which is tragic.
Far too many kids these days don't have the luxury of room to be idiots because the world is so damn hostile to them. And us adults are not giving them anything like the support they need.
That I've been the source of old person wisdom for a few people at this point is terrifying because I have very little wisdom of my own. There are a lot of parents and teachers out there that need to get better at things.
We have created a world that's increasingly hostile to children existing, and we wonder why they have some weird, to us olds, opinions.
maybe this take shouldn't be coming out of the mouth of an 18 year old still in high school but i think part of maturing or growing as a person should absolutely include learning to get over your vitriolic hatred of children cause i've never seen a responsible, mature adult go on the internet to talk about how much they hate the minors or think a 16 year old is cringe for expressing discomfort over something. what i've seen instead is people going to embarrassing lengths to talk down to teens because they think they're stupid or that their thoughts matter less and if that's how you truly see the world then i believe that you, the enlightened adult in this situation, can make the conscious decision to disengage and swiftly move on with your life. the block button is free
#if you do find yourself stumbling into a teen space as an adult always make sure they know you are an ancient thing still waking the earth#and remember it's their space and if they don't want you there then don't be there#also you were an idiot kid too once#and honestly a lot of us still are but are also having to deal with stupid adult shit too#also remember not knowing something doesn't make someone stupid it just means nobody showed them yet#sometimes you get to be that someone and that can be really cool#but nothing means they have to listen to you if they don't want to#you have to earn people's attention#i get so much use out of the How Do You Do Fellow Kids meme#but seriously never forget if you are a guest in someone else's space that you are a guest and it's their space and their rules#that doesn't just apply to teen spaces either#look just don't be a dick okay
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Just finished reading the recent Batgirls series. Can someone tell me why the writing was so Nothing??
#why was so much of it performative.... bad quips and annoying narration and surface level character analysis#some of it was fun and i really liked jorge coronas art in volume 1#but i never felt like the writers truly understood the characters#also they definitely favored steph and that was annoying. justice for cass!!#like i DID like some of it but. overall my impression of the series is truly ''that sure was a comic book''#also ''how do you do fellow kids''#young people like cell phones and dogs and cup noodles and podcasts and boba tea right#like. girl. please. the cringe is too much#ALSO SO MUCH OF THE ART AFTER CORONA WAS UTTER DOGSHIT IM SO MAD!!!!!!#ROBBI RODRIGUEZ MY ABSOLUTE ENEMY#overall if youre a cass and/or steph fan its a mildly entertaining series but its never truly Good and a lot of it is forgettable#im collecting the trades anyway bc im a weirdo and if its a cass and/or steph-focused comic i like to have it on my shelf#but i certainly wouldnt say its a need to own book#if youre looking for the volume with the best art get the first one#if youre looking for the volume with the most character stuff thats not ''steph is worried shes not good enough for the team''#which is. a lot of the series. gratingly.#then the third one has some faceoffs with their parents that are Fine#also a guest artist for a couple issues whos kinda fun#overall tho. was hoping for better 😭😭😭#dc#comics
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" MUM GOT US A METRIC FUCK-TONNE OF SHIT FOR YULETIDE, FUCK YEAH !!! "
" Surprising, consida'ing all the shit you said to me last week. "
" Because I'm Mum's precious little guy, and you're the stepchild. "
" Riiiight...which is why she stuffed my stocking fulla' than yours ? "
" That was to make it even since mine had bigga' stuff, you absolute TWAT. "
#🔪🌙 // guest star: samael#🔪🌙 // guest star: private#SAMMY AND MIKEY JUMPSCARE#im doing a thing on raph where his kids take over for a moment and...i wanna do that here w sam and private too JHFKLG#these two...bickering smh
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